It starts with just a generally unsettled feeling. Iām restless all the time. My brain is whirring like a maxed out hard drive running too many programs. I canāt pinpoint the restlessness at first, but itās familiar. I know Iāve felt this way many times before. And after several weeks, the hard drive slows down, and I can name what I’m feeling.
Though at this point in my life I call Nebraska home, for many years, I claimed no hometown. Such is the life of a military dependentāmy first two moves as a human arenāt even registered in my memory, I was so young. The third move, I remember stepping out of a hotel room in Albuquerque, New Mexico to the sight of hundreds of hot air balloons, but even that memory is fuzzyādo I remember it, or do I remember my mom telling the story of it?
All other moves are etched in my memories though. Listening to my first Amy Grant cassette on the road to Alabama. Staring out the car window trying not to cry on the road back to Nebraskaāweād only been in Alabama 10 months, how could I possibly be sad to leave? Sulking in my dadās truck on the way to Montana a month before my 16th birthday.
The moves in my adulthood werenāt quite as fraught, as they were my choices, but there was always a mix of excitement, fear of the unknown, and sorrow at what Iād left behind.
Even though the family put down stakes in Nebraska in 1994, I bounced out of the county three times in 12 years. In 2008, I came back, and Iāve been in the same apartment for 10 years.
For someone who spent 35 years moving every 2-4 years, 10 years in one space is a long time.
And thatās the restlessness, I am sure.
I love my jobāit really is my dream job, a job that sometimes I canāt believe I was able to carve out. Iām teaching everything Iāve ever wanted to teach. And Iām close to having 20 years of service in this district. Who leaves a dream job so close to having 20 years with an organization, a benchmark that typically brings with it financial benefits?
Yet the restlessness.
Maybe all I need is a cross-town move, a new space, new furniture, new surroundings.
Maybe I need a new city, new state, new country.
Maybe I just need a new hair color and new clothes.
But of this I am sure: my bones and my soul need a change.
Anyone have any ideas?